We are different. The ground of normal that we carefully constructed in our lives is different. I am not sure if this is a bad thing or not. I find how I see us is different. I have to stand taller and alone at times that I didn't. I think sometimes we grow to rely on other people so much that we forget the tune of our own internal music. I finally can hear the notes of me outside of us without sadness. I know this occurred out of circumstance but it is our new reality. I hope and pray that I don't forget the dance of us in finding the song of me.