The feeling of being stuck in a situation you don't like but you feel unable to move forward. The past keeps you crippled. It is not right staying in one place. Throwing a pity party every once in a while might be healthy, you are only human. You have a right to feel sorry for yourself. But being a constant whiner is a suicide. You suck every joy of your life. You remain glued to a desolate situation while you can simply decide to man up! Leave the bad situation behind you, learn from it, embrace life. Look for the silver lining! Life is waiting for you to embrace it. Live it fully, don't let it pass you by. There is so much you can do with your life, so much dreams to fulfill, so much projects to make.